ladylinda, I am somewhat surprised, I had always thought you to be a little, well, different. Not catty like one or two of the others. Can I say that almost 100% of the female members I have met or seen albeit briefly at meet-ups and the like have been nothing short of charming. There was one however who was going to give my wife a truncheon to hit me over the head with, and another one who is always trying to boss me around like she does her husband,poor chap.
ladylinda sounds so charming as well.