Yes Lady P, it might seem like an odd question. But today family members sometimes ask questions along those lines in a joking way. It probably just amounts to parents having their own insecurities too, something which wouldn't have occurred to us as youngsters.
Your boat question reminded me of my grandmother and my aunts who lived in the US and who travelled back for visits here in the 1950s. They travelled on a Dutch ship on one trip and brought me back a Dutch doll. She wore the Dutch national dress with the traditional pointed hat. But the fascinating thing to me about her was the body. She had a cloth body but all the joints were wooden A cross between a doll and a puppet. Her hair was quite yellow and plaited and she wore clogs. Because of the jointed wooden legs she constantly moved, so, to me, she was quite lifelike. I thought she was wonderful. Viv,