i got mom talking tonite about her happiest days,she said it was the war years,rather than go into munitions,she went with my dad to upper heyford in oxfordshire for a while before he moved to raf coningsby in lincs,one day she said it was pretty quiet,nobody about at all ,or planes,just her hanging out the washing,when a lone german fighter(could have been anything,bomber,fighter ),appeared,and as there was nothing about ,it did a strafing run towards mom and the washing ,now even the canadian airmen werent quick enough to catch mom off guard so fritz had no chance,quick dive into a ditch and let the washing get shot up,she heard later it had been shot down,lucky for him ,he wouldnt want to have mom and her shot washing.
its very hard to my generation to relate to this and the effect the circumstances had on ordinary peoples lives,for instance,at upper heyford,there was a dance nearly every week,by the runway and people would be dancing around,when the word a bomber was coming in ,people could tell by the sound of the engine whether they would make it or not,mom and other people would run out onto push bikes and light the paraffin lamps down the runway to guide em in,the little band would stop,and all went quiet listening to the sound of the engines,people knew they werent going to make it,there would be unerving silence,then the huge explosion as the bomber blew up,then in all this madness the band would strike up ,people danced on while the rescue teams went out(also hard to believe now was the priority was not the crew but the perspex in the turrets,but as mom said they got the crews first ,bugger the perspex),they lost many many canaidians at heyford,i used to take mom and dad back just to see the graves 18 19 20 21 year olds,never to go back,their are 2 canaidian airman buried at burnham on sea ,when i take mom for a few days away even now ,i have to take her to them so she can just touch their headstones after all this time and likes to think that these lads parents know someone is visiting.
on a brighter note,dad used to tell me of the time they wanted to go into oxford,winston churchills lady driver was on the camp,so one of the canaidians chatted her up for the nite while the others nicked her car,unfortunatly it broke down on the way back so it was abandoned and they hitched a lift back.winny was not amused and the young lady in question had a severe reprimand(but i think she thought it was worth it).
shortly after dad was moved to coningsby,and i remember many years later reading his flight log,i can still picture the names now,submarine pens,lille,st nazaire,oil fields at ploesti,hamburgh ,dresden,chemical factories in poland,being chased back by a me109 over the channel,being grateful when the engines packed up on the way out and having to return knowing they were sending most of them to certain death.i asked him years later about dresden,he said you never saw what you did below,you just worried about the curtain of flack in front of you hoping you would get through it and seeing bombers going down either side of you,or even worse the yanks above just dropping their bombs on the bombers flying below them,there were many brought down that way,today they call it friendly fire.
they once landed a lanc at snitterfield airfield(they said it couldnt be done),they were going to see an injured crewman at warwick hospital,when they went to take off again a huge crowd had turned up knowing they werent going to get off ,but they did,but only just,they then took it over rookery rd handsworth so one of them could see his house.unfortunatly later on in years when the alzheimers and parkinsons took over he just took everything to do with the raf and destroyed it.
the famous line IF ONLY I HAD ASKED MORE QUESTIONS but you always think i will do it later.
i took him back to coningsby and upper heyford in his later years but his mind had gone and it meant absolutly nothing to him.i also took mom back recently to heyford to see my cousin who had bought the house next door to the pub THE BELL,and in there was the man who mom and dad lodged with (he was very young then) and he said to me ,weall remember your mom as RED as she always had huge bright red nails and looked like a film star.i had to stop him there in case any more skeletons came rolling out the cupboard,think i would rather not know.she still cries a bit now when she talks about all the young men who tragically died far from home by accident or just never came back,lest we forget eh?