I have only just found this thread, how fascinating it is. I knew my sister's father in law had been in Burma, but he was one of the lucky ones, he came back alive. I knew him, but not particularly well. I saw him several times on television when the opened the NMA at Alrewas. Sadly he died about two years ago, his name was Arthur Alex Bourne (known as Alex).
I was wholly shocked knowing what they went through to find my gran's cousin had died on the Burma railway in September 1943. He was a driver in the RASC and only aged 38. He is buried at Thanbyuzayat War Cemetery - or at least 'remembered' - so I presume that means buried? I am not ashamed to say I shed at tear or two for him when I went to Alrewas. His widow never remarried and they had no children, so no-one really to remember him.