Hello Susan,
I see what you mean - its the way I phrased things - a bit late at night when I stumbled across this website..
What I meant to say is this : Selina was living at number 39 with her mother Selina and father George. As you point out the younger Selina was left to bring up three children by her husband who went to America. It is part of the family folk lore that he died after falling from a height whilst working on a building, in Michigan perhaps? I don't know his name,even.
It is their child Arthur who around 1910 / 11 goes to South Wales to find work. There he meets Emma Beatrice Jones.
Emma Beatrice has moved to Pontypridd with her parents ( Thomas and Emma ) from Netherton, Dudley.
Emma Beatrice marries Arthur Edward James (one of Selina's three boys ).
Emma Beatrice and Arthur have six children. Violet (dies in 1940), Arthur, John, Albert, Mary (who passed away last month), and Beatrice (my grandmother).
Beatrice James married Frederick Wescombe. Their daughter, Valerie, was my mother.
So if we are related it is either through Arthur or one of the brothers you refer to. Arthur was my great grandfather - captured in the first world war narrowly surviving and living on into his eighties.
Incidentally, it is also part of family folk lore that the Lucas name is linked to the Lucas Industrial family (car components etc), but I have not gone that far in any family research. Wishful thinking perhaps!
Sadly, after the death of Mary last month, all of that generation have now passed on, taking with them all the knowledge I wish I had asked them about that I now find so interesting.
I suppose its not wise to publish my phone number online - but it would be great to exchange knowledge on the family tree.
I must admit I am a bit of a novice in this and I hope the foregoing makes sense.
Best wishes,
Salty