If I remember correctly the 11 plus exam came in two parts. I passed the first part, but not the second.
Consequently I landed up in a secondary modern school, and retook the exam again at 12/13, and again failed. The reason according to my teacher was that my spelling, again let me down extremely badly.
I could read, and digest words, but spelling was a whole different ball game.
I was 15 in the October, and by the following January started work. The school suggested to my parents via me that I stayed at school until I was 16, that was a no no. We needed my wage input.
I have rather strong views regarding those time especially around women.
I worked in offices, and factories, in fact I believe secondary moderns at that time produced factor fodder. Also most of my friends married, and any
aspirations of anything more regarding a career would be far in the future.
My saving grace was that I became interested in following the Christian faith which I did hopefully still in depth. So I applied for Nursing school DRH. My lack of education stopped me applying for the SRN course, but I was accepted for the now defunct SEN corse. At the age of 49 I was accepted at the University of Wolverhampton for a conversion course to RGN which at the age of 50 I gained.
What about the spelling issue, well my oldest son now 50 had exactly the same problem as me. Fluent reader in fact almost a photographic memory but had no idea how to spell, but the problem was picked up at 7. It appears we both had no idea how to break down words, we picked up words almost by sight, and not phonics. After weeks of tears, and tantrums my son got it lol, but it now in the last decade I have it under control.
All I can say when I did assignments I was more than glad that I brought a computer way back in the 90’s.
When I became a RGN i was able to gain 2 promotions, and the irony was that I also taught student nurses also.
So looking back do I regret failing the 11 plus, someways yes. My world would have been expanded much wider, but would life have taken me down the same path, not so sure it would have, and nursing would never have been on my radar.
My husband always believed I could have gone much higher up in promotion if I had gained my RGN sooner, but life is never that simpl, and losing my elder parents both before I was 40, and add into life‘s mix long term fostering, perhaps failing the 11 plus lead me into different pastures of life with on reflection again no regrets.