I know this thread is about Bullying in the Work place - but want about those bullied in school?
I believe In order to eliminate bullying from your life one needs more than one strategy just in case one strategy doesn’t work. . .
For example, my parents always to told me to fight back and not to be coward and the bullying will stop – However, sometimes it can make matters worse. . .
Victims of bullying must know that the bullies want to make them mad and sad. Never let the bully see you crying or getting emotional, it is a sure bet that the bullying will continue.
That is one thing I never did was to cry for fear of being called a cry baby. So for this reason, it is important for victims of bullying to do their best to maintain their composure if they are being bullied.
1. Ignore the bully. Ignoring the bully can sometimes prove effective. Ignoring and walking away without saying anything is a strategy you can try. Even though it may be difficult, try not to act upset about the teasing. If you appear hurt or angry at the taunts, the bullying will continue. This strategy works well for those who have a sense of well-being. Walking away while being teased may encourage the bully to continue teasing you because the bully thinks you are scared. However, it is a simple strategy to try. If it doesn’t work, move on to strategy number two.
2. Agree with the bully. Remember, bullies are trying to get a reaction out of you. If they don’t get a reaction, there is a chance they will leave you alone. If a bully is making fun of your clothes or a physical characteristic, just agree with them. This is a strategy that worked for me when I was in school. I was constantly being teased because I was quite small for my age. . . I just agreed with them this took the power away from the bullies
3. Stay in a group. Bullies like to pick on those who are alone. It is much easier to bully without a support system.
Victims of bullying and those who are potential victims must be aware of a number of strategies they can use to eliminate bullying from their lives. Having only one strategy available to them is not enough. Bullying is a painful experience and victims must know how to protect themselves. . . .