This thread also makes me think of one of the worst days in my life, as I'm sure it was for many, many Brummies - Friday 22nd November 1974.
As I've indicated, there were loads of young people working at Lewis's and The Tavern in the Town was one of the regular, after-work haunts.
I was married by this time and our first child had been born a couple of weeks before, so we weren't out that evening.
I'll never forget arriving in work on that morning, still numb from the news of the previous evening. My office was on the second floor and I had to walk through Miss Selfridge to get to it. I knew the girls and managers well - I mentioned before that my wife had worked for Miss S - and as I passed through the department, the supervisor, Joan North, who was a great friend (and godmother to one of my sons), was in tears, as were most of the other staff. She was comforting a couple of girls and when she saw me she left them, put her arm around me and told me that a couple of the girls had been injured, but also my wife's best friend, one of our bridesmaids and very very close to us, was thought to have been one of the fatalities.
My wife was at home nursing our new baby so I called her mother and asked her to go round so that there was someone there when I made the call - you can imagine how it was.
The rest of the day was horrendous - the whole place was in shock, there seemed to be bomb alerts every few minutes (although I'm sure it was less frequent than that), at one point as it was getting dark I looked out of my office window which overlooked the Queensway - the road had been closed and an army Land Rover was approaching a suspect vehicle. It was almost surreal.
At home time I had to walk down to Digbeth to get the bus back to Hall Green, past the Tavern which already had loads of flowers outside. It was gloomy and wet and everyone was walking in the middle of the road in New Street (it was before pedestrianisation) - I was terrified in case another bomb was around and I'd be caught by glass, although there was hardly any left in the shops opposite the pub.
The whole experience was dreadful, and to this day, all these years later, I can't walk past the Yard of Ale.
I'm glad that there's a memorial to the people who were killed that night and I often go and have a look, and remember Paula (Marilyn) Nash, and that horrible day.