Thank you for the further invaluable contributions, MWS, Janice and other members who are kind enough to be interested. I now know so much more about Mary's life in the USA, and that of several of those close to her. Her two husbands, both of whom predeceased her, were also immigrants, it seems: Walter Wilson who accompanied her on her voyage to New York and, like her, had been born in Old Hill; and Pete Semon who originally came from Germany (although the 1940 Census now seems to contradict that). Her stepchildren, Vernis and Arthur Semon, left behind them just one child, Nancy, Vernis's daughter. Whether those who have been interested enough to comment on these people on appropriate genealogy sites are descendants of her, or other relatives of Walter or Pete, I don't know.
In due course I'll make suitable amendments to the opening statement about Mary, to include all this new information, and then leave it there as a lasting memory of just one "honorary Brummie" who arrived there from the Black Country, spent time in the city and then the rest of her life in Cleveland, Ohio. Perhaps those researchers in the USA who have an interest in Mary might find it, one day.
I am wondering if it is possible to find out a bit more of her life, and that of her sister Martha, from earlier years and much closer to home in Birmingham. The key to it, I think, is Martha, my grandmother (1874-1918). She and Mary were the second and fourth daughters out of five, the children of Joseph Bannister (1851-1925) and his wife Mary (née Parkes, 1853-1929) who after marriage lived in various addresses in
Old Hill including
Wright's Lane (1871, 1874 and possibly 1881),
Garrett's Lane (1876-1883) and
Cherry Orchard (1888 -1916 and possibly beyond). It has been mentioned that Martha came to Birmingham possibly at the age of 16, thus in 1889/1890, and that she was recorded as a servant. When Mary, nine years her junior, followed her is unknown; but it seems that Mary was living with Martha and her husband, Charles Myers (married 1897), before her departure to the USA in 1904.
It seems as though Martha appears in the 1881 Census, aged six, but does not seem to appear in the 1891. Presumably Mary does. What is unknown is where Martha lived for the next six years and how she met my grandfather who is recorded at the time of his 1897 marriage as living at
83 Stirling Road, Edgbaston. Martha's address at that time is listed as
10, Highbury Road, Kings Heath. The couple first lived at 10, Highbury Road where their first child, a daughter, was born. Was this the same house as
"The Cedars", Highbury Road, where Charles is stated as living in the 1899 Kelly's "Court pages"?
The daughter's birth certificate describes Charles as a "dealer in antiquities". By 1899, when their second child, my father, was born they had moved to less salubrious accommodation at
38 Summer Lane where, in an apparent struggle to survive, they sold antiques from a shop which they set up in their home. In due course they moved to better premises at
44 Snow Hill, some time before 1907. I wonder if the latter had been the business/home address of my great-grandfather, Henry Myers (1832-1906), who had also set up an antiques business in that area following his adventures in Gold Rush California. The 1901 Census, unavailable to my brother when he did his researches in the 1990s, might clarify this.
At what stage Mary enters this Birmingham story, to live for some years with Charles and Martha before setting off for America in 1904, is unknown, but in old age my father recorded the fact that it did indeed happen. Would now accessible records give us any better clue about all this?
I myself am too old to learn the skills needed to cope with all the intricacies of family history research! But I'm fascinated by my grandparents' marriage and not just for the obvious reasons. Beyond the latter lies a very significant break with tradition. Grandfather Charles's elder sister, Eliza Rachel Myers (1862-1939), was the first member of that family line to break with the tradition of centuries and marry outside the Jewish faith, to a Charles Hinton. That was in 1895. Two years later, she was followed by Charles (1866-1940) when he married Martha Bannister in 1897. Whether the marriage of Charles and Martha crossed another barrier - that of class, significant in those days - is another area of interest. I've no way of telling for certain, but I suspect that Charles's father, Gold-Rush Henry, was by the 1870s fairly "middle-class" - he had a, presumably successful, antiques business in
Snow Hill and sent his two sons to King Edward's. Martha was from a family of Black Country coal miners; I have no idea of her education but she seems to have started life as a domestic servant and would have been deemed "working class" in society. It is possible that none of the parents were present at the wedding - if so, was that significant or irrelevant? Could Martha even have served in whatever household Charles was living in at the time?)
Thank you again for all your interest and efforts.
Chris
The picture below is, 95% certainly, of Mary (Parkes) Bannister, the mother of Martha and Mary (1853-1929). Apparently taken by my father, Charles and Martha's only son - hence the annotation - and probably 1919 or 1920, Old Hill. Still quite a handsome woman at about 67.
