Hi Jill, Thank you, I wold appreciate this. I am, not in anyhurry, my friend Sue knows I am following this up, but her brother in law Len, does not. he will be surprised, I am sure of that.
I did not share a tree on GR because of hot matches, in fact I stopped all those because they were a waste of time and frankly, got on my pip.
The one lady I am speaking about (there are more than one) IS related to me, albeit very distantly, and I thought she just wanted the information I have that is relevant to her side of the family (she is descended from an aunt of my gt grandmother). I was horrified when I found she had taken the whole of my tree, including people that have no connection with her whatsoever. I am sure this had more to do with numbers than anything else. Surely the amount of people you have in your tree is not relevant, it is the amount of research you have done that is the important factor? I started eleven years ago and have done as much in record offices, if not more, than on the internet, as I feel internet it not terifically reliable. I have also had people promising information and photos and not returning the favour. I find that quite disgusting, personally.
Best wishes
Shortie