Aidan
master brummie
What about what was said to us ladies - keep your hands on your ha'penny. But I dont think it was just a brummie saying though.
keep your hand on your ha’penny (till the right man turns up) - is ‘an old piece of advice to an unmarried girl’ (Petch, 1969): c. 1880–1970, but little used since c. 1960. The orig. is of linguistic interest, for Grose, 1785, has money, as in a domestic nurse’s admonition to a female child, ‘You’re showing your money’. There is a var., three penny bit; and the expression acquired a secondary meaning: ‘Be careful or you’ll find yourself expensively involved’: C20; by 1970, ob. (Skehan, 1977.)
I am sure it was covered in Music Hall (perhaps Max Miller?) but here is the The Fivepenny Piece in 1969 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sfmYIjojkMg
When Molly began to go courting,
Her mother was anxious to tell
He certain young fellas would want her
To stray down the pathway to 'ell
So Molly's old ma used to say:
Keep your 'and on your 'appenny,
Cover it well with your palm
Keep your 'and on your 'appenny,
And Molly will come to no harm.
They'll hug you and kiss you so sweetly
They make you feel ever so nice
But 'andle the fellas discretely
And follow this simple advice:
Keep your 'and ...
When Molly and I went out courting,
I told her she'd nothing to fear
But down in the covers last Sunday
I whispered these words in her ear:
Take your 'and off your 'appenny
Look into my bonny blue eyes
Take your 'and off your 'appenny
And I'll give you - a lovely surprise!