Hi Mohawk, I have had a look at that site, I like the way it is organised, very neat. Unfortunately, they have Ralph's mother's details incorrectly, as do the CWGC. I have emailed CWGC to put it right, but how long it will take, I have no idea. His father was a gardener, and I am given to understand that he designed gardens in Picadilly, Manchester, but that may be an urban myth. He was head gardener at a large Hall prior to working for the council. His mother was Ann Susan Lindley nee Dunford, and her sister was Mary Ann Dunford, my gt grandmother. I am shortly meeting Ann Susan's granddaughter who lives in Coventry, she has more information, but did stress that Ralph died on the Burma Road and he was not involved with the Railway, which we know is not correct. Perhaps it was said in order to avoid distress.
I am hopefully off to Alrewas this week, weather permitting, will let you know what I find.
Shortie