For information-
The George Cross is the civilian counterpart of the Victoria Cross and the highest gallantry award for civilians as well as for military personnel in actions which are not in the face of the enemy or for which purely military honours would not normally be granted.
The George Cross is awarded-
In recognition of "acts of the greatest heroism or of the most conspicuous courage in circumstances of extreme danger."
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/George_Cross
The Victoria Cross (VC) is the highest military decoration awarded for valour "in the face of the enemy" to members of the armed forces.
The Victoria Cross is awarded for-
“... most conspicuous bravery, or some daring or pre-eminent act of valour or self-sacrifice, or extreme devotion to duty in the presence of the enemy”.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Victoria_Cross
As to the right and wrongs of war, whether we should engage in a particular conflict is eternally debatable and there will never be a satisfactory conclusion amongst free thinkers. There will always be those who say a war is necessary and those who say it is not. I like to think of myself as a pacifist, but if you knock me down rest assured I will get up and knock you down.
I satisfy (?) my own struggle with the morality of war thus-
A soldier that enlists must do so, even in peacetime, with the knowledge he may be called upon to fight. As a soldier he should not be concerned with the morality of war. Taking ‘the Kings Shilling’ presupposes his (or her) willingness to obey without question.
I end thus- whatever our scruples, our wish for peace the brave men and women who are prepared to make the ultimate sacrifice to keep us safe must enjoy our support. They must expect, as previously suggested, to enjoy above all of us the benefits of peacetime or to at least expect that if they do not come home, those they leave behind shall enjoy those benefits. Sadly, this is often not the case.