I would agree Christmas is indeed a sad time if you have lost someonne who you have shared many years, good and bad with. I think, despite what you read in the
papers that most men deep down are ,as Cole Porter put it "One Gal guys I know that i certainly never looked at another woman in the 54 years I was married to
Enid which is why when one goes, its so sad for the other person. I dont think it will ever get any better, I honestly dont, bye Bernard