Dear all, Thank you so much for your interest in this. I am really grateful.
I have been off line and not signing in as I work in the NHS and there has been a lot on since early 2020!
This query arises from my paternal line, and our family know that our Mary Grace Beadsmore herself was Irish as she both said so to her grandchildren and also had a pronounced accent!
We have done a family tree on Ancestry for the John Grace/Susan Picket line, and it appeared to be a different family to mine. (
https://www.ancestry.co.uk/family-tree/tree/182389609/family?cfpid=192370720571). However I wil take another and closer look at it.
Mary Grace Beadsmore was widowed with 7 children at the age of 35. She had her own children all christened at St Chad's RC church (now cathedral) in Birmingham, as quite a few Brummie Irish people seemed to at the time.
I had wondered if Mary Grace, who's date of birth on the 1939 census is given as 01/07/1970, is not in the 1871, 1881 and 1891 censuses as she may perhaps have been on the island of Ireland at the time of these censuses, and of course those Irish records have been destroyed.
The lack of information on the marriage certificate is incredibly frustrating, and it has made me wonder if she either did not know her parentage or if her parents disapproved of her marrying in an Anglican church. I expect we will never know. Her husband George Beadsmore died so very young (of TB) and the Thomas Henry Beadsmore witnessing the marriage was George's younger brother (their father, also called George, died in 1872, and their family history was also complicated). Thomas changed the spelling of the original family surname from Beardsmore to Beardsmore, which has made things even more difficult to track down.
I would be really grateful for any further ideas and feedback. I am also especially keen to hear from anyone who has any knowledge of the Beadsmore family in the Duddeston/Aston area.
Also, my grandfather was a Richard Green (son of Richard Green and Lottie Hutton), who married Lily Beadsmore (Mary Grace's oldest daughter), and I think they lived for a while at "The Gosta Green" pub. I would love to hear any tiny fragment of infrormation anyone might have anout any of these people who lived more than a century ago! BW to all, Steve