Hello ‘tiggy’,
My name is Mick Coleman I moved from Brum approx. 32 yrs. ago and I now live in Devon with my wife. Our two girls, with their families live a few minuets away.
My Mom also lives very close. About 2 weeks ago whilst on one of my daily visits I found mom crying. When I asked why she was upset, she told me she was thinking about the time ‘they hung our poor Jimmy’.
She recounted the time Jimmy’s mom (This lady I think must be your Nan.) had visited my Nan’s house in Witton. (Nan’s married name was Wilson her maiden name Gibbons.)
This was after 1949. Mom recalled a few of the sad thinks that had been said on that day.
I know a little of the story about James Farrell. I’ve heard it a few times before and so I knew why mom was upset. On this occasion I tried to change the subject so as not to up-set her even more. However, without asking mom I have been trying to find out more about Jimmy and as a result, I’ve found your thread on this site.
Also if I may it this point say many thanks to Wendy ‘Mistress Brummie’, for her posting 3 days ago @ 14:04 also Shera ‘true brummie’, for her posting 5 days ago @ 17:15 and 3 days ago @ 14:18.
I am very new to this type of research and so may I apologize to all others I have yet to read and therefore not said thanks to here?
Mom is not in great health. Her ‘agoraphobia’, keeps her locked within the walls of a small but nice flat which she rents. Because mom can’t go out she lives with her memories some like these ones are sad, however I know she needs to talk about them and share. I am not a good listener and so I hope others may help us both out.
Today Wednesday 21.04.10.
I have found your postings and I’ve read them to Mom. I asked her if I could put you all in touch. She said yes, but by that time once again the tears were flowing. Mom did go on to say that Jimmy called my Nan, Aunt. This I think was a mark of affection or respect rather than their actual relationship. I think cousins, to be their real. Sorry, I didn’t pursue it.
Mom would like to her from you. We also have a relation who knows very well of this family tragedy. I intend to contact this lady who I’m sure would be happy to help you if you wish.
All the best
Mick.
PS It is now Thursday 22.04.10
Sorry it’s taken an extra day but I had to register before Posting. I have now amended the thanks bit and the relevant times above. I hope it makes sense. And I hope I'm doing this bit right!