MWS
from Bham
Hi, Penninah seems to have made her dad up and the address. She is a very hard lady to trace . Thank you for trying to help me
There are lots of things that are not black and white in family history. Mistakes were made and people lied.
However from the info in this thread there are a number of coincidences that are worth noting and making a few assumptions a reasonable theory can be made.
Peninah Smith was born Bath 1869, registered as Lasbury, the illegitimate daughter of Mary Ann Lasbury and Jacob Smith Dowse.
She had a brother Sydney Smith Dowse, registered as such in 1867 Bath.
It seems certain that her mother was Mary Ann Lasbury b1842 in Bath. Her father was Thomas.
How long the relationship lasted and what type it was will never be known but Jacob Smith Dowse married another woman in 1870. This would have left Mary in a difficult position and may have been the reason she came to Bham.
Can't see Mary and the children on the 1871 census which could mean they were travelling but on the 1881 census they are in Aston under the name May, first names and births all match. Mary is listed as married but there's no husband present and haven't found a marriage for her to anyone named May.
Mary Ann marries a Vincent Dows (his name is just coincidence) on which her father's name is listed as Thomas Lashing, close enough to Lashbury. She is listed as Mary Ann May and a widow. Her birthplace on 1891 census is listed as Bath. She appears to die in 1895.
As Peninah is listed as Smith on her marriage she may have known who her father was (or at least who her mother told her it was) but not all the details, hence the mistakes.
The two reasons to assume that she was the daughter of Jacob Smith Dowse is firstly her name, very uncommon but also the name of Jacob's sister, and the second is her brother, what other reason can there be to be named Smith Dowse when their mother was neither named Smith or Dowse. That she was registered as Lashbury may mean her parents relationship had ended.