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In the process of my work with the Tasmanian review into adults who were abused in State care I have read many many sad stories of Tasmanian children who were taken from their families. Many needed to be saved from dire circumstances but were rescued from the frying pan and put into the fire! There have been several stories of child migrants from UK and what they went through as well. This poem is about three little Tassie boys - the youngest only 5 -

At night they came to take us
on a holiday or so they said
Three little boys from the bush
Brothers

Clambering into the shiny car
Excited, smiling ruddy faces
starting on a new adventure
Brothers

Headlights in the blackness
illuminated stark high walls
Hurry hurry out
Brothers

Cold eyes came to meet us
Rough hands tore us apart
Our cries fell on the cold stones
Brothers

Years passed in hopeless pain
Utter hardship in a cruel domain
How did we survive this living hell
Brothers?


Only after I wrote this (and re-wrote) did I recognise the play on the word "Brothers" associated with much of this child abuse. I think I will still re-write the poem occasionally - because of its essence.
 
Home Boys

:( Brilliant, depth of reality in feeling for these "Home" boys
Reached me Kate, hurt me a bit (I know some boys/Men now)M8,s of mine, Proud to Say,
Thanks for the "Hurt" Kate,,We all need reminding of these obscenities,

A small yet eloquent poem with a Kick of a Mule :cry:

Tassie devil,,, kiss x John
 
:D What a sad world those children lived in... We have no idea of their feelings... We do now Kate your poem says it all.

Chris :)
 
As you know Kate, I have done a lot of research into "Home Children" . A shameful part of our great city's history. Your poem described the heartache of siblings being wrenched apart perfectly. There is a photograph of these children on the dockside after arriving in foreign fields. They all carried teddy bears, which I believe, they had taken off them after the picture was taken. This sending children away went on into the 1960's. :cry:
 
CRUEL PAST

Grace - read a report today where a little boy took his teddy when he was taken on his "holiday" to one of these terrible places. The carer (an adult man) ripped the head of his teddy!
 
Grrrh

:) I want to stitch the head back on that Teddy :)

Grrh, I want to give THAT (Man???) Stitches :twisted: John
 
John,
You probably know that over 6,000 children made their way to Canada and Australia through the Childrens Emigration Homes in Birmingham. Margaret Humphries book called Empty Cradles is well worth reading. It will make you cry and make you very, very mad. The last children went from Barnados in 1967.
 
Lost & Found

Hi Grace your a Sweetie 8) T,other Ladies posts on here, luvvies too :oops:

Did try reading that book, Empty Cradles a while ago, Its my sisters book, She works in the Care environments, a Lovely gal like you lot.
Couldn,t read the book,, Got me too Angry :twisted: ,,,
Will try again,, next week, Think I can handle it better now (Hope so).

I knew there was a lot of "Home Kids" farmed out, Had no idea SO Many,
Fotunately for me I have met several of "the boys & girls" Men & Ladies now,, All that I met had mixed but reasonable upbringing,s with some lovely "Moms & Dads" in these faraway places, The vast majority I beleive (Hope) probably had "better" young lives than some of us Bk/Bk kids & Certainly most of the "Commonwealth" people I have met are wonderful , kind & caring folk, especially about their Or any children,

I just hate reading of "The Unlucky" Ones :( John
 
Home Children and others...

:D Like John, I have met and know of .‚.‘Home Children' here in NZ and they had petty good lives, although as Kate and Grace have pointed out some children were not so lucky.
I think in some cases of ill treatment it would have been the same for any child who was in the care of these people. Some people have always treated children as little slaves and still do, it's just part of their ego 'Controlling bullies' and it does not only happen in low economic, or foster homes either. One of my best friends here in NZ, was an only child from a very .‚.’ Well heeled.‚.’ family from Richmond London and attended a very well known girls private school, but was treated like the family domestic from a very early age. As a child being locked in cupboards and later as a teenager, locked in the bedroom if seen as not doing the job correct, or as misbehaving. Nice toys were given and then taken away and given to the child next door for the same reasons.
 
Hello Kate: Very sad poem. My father was a Barnardo's boy sent over to Canada from Birmingham in 1906 to work on farms.. He was only 11 years of age. He was never to see his family again. His Father died and his Mother was unable to care for all the children so she placed my father in Barnardos'. He never spoke of his time at the home, but I think it was due to shell shock from WW1. He joined WW1, was sent back over to England and then to France to fight. He was severely wounded and sent back to Canada. He only knew that he was born in Birmingham. A few years ago, through a message that I placed on www.genealogy.com was someone able to contact me regarding my family history. I was contaced by the Granddaughter of Lily Burlton who was my dear father's younger sister. She lives in Solihull. She did not know that her Grandmother had any brothers or sistter. It turns out that everyone in the world with the surname of Burlton or Burleton are related in some way. They have visited Canada twice and we have had a wonderful family runion with them. It was wonderful to finally be connected to our family. I am a member of a British Home Children's mailing list through Rootsweb and there are hundreds of people on this list trying to find family relatives in the United Kingdom. I also belong to The British Home Children's Society which has it's head office in British Columbia and we have a lovely pin in the shape of a snowflake with the words British Home Children on it.
Regards
Isobel
 
Hello: Here is a poem that was posted on the British Home Children's - Rootsweb mailing list a couple of years ago. I do not know the author
Regards
Isobel
In the Workhouse: Christmas Day by George R. Sims

It is Christmas Day in the Workhouse,
And the cold bare walls are bright
With garlands of green and holly, And the place is a pleasant sight:
For with clean-washed hands and faces,
In a long and hungry line
The paupers sit at the tables
For this is the hour they dine.
And the guardians and their ladies, Although the wind is east,
Have come in their furs and wrappers,
To watch their charges feast;
To smile and be condescending,
Put pudding on pauper plates, To be hosts at the workhouse banquet They've paid for -- with their rates.

Oh, the paupers are meek and lowly With their
"Thank'ee kindly, mum's"
So long as they fill their stomachs,
What matter it whence it comes?
But one of the old men mutters,
And pushes his plate aside:
"Great God!" he cries; "but it chokes me!
For this is the day she died."

The guardians gazed in horror,
The master's face went white; "Did a pauper refuse the pudding?" Could their ears believe aright?
Then the ladies clutched their husbands,
Thinking the man would die, Struck by a bolt, or something,
By the outraged One on high.

But the pauper sat for a moment,
Then rose 'mid a silence grim,
For the others had ceased to chatter And trembled in every limb.
He looked at the guardians' ladies,
Then, eyeing their lords, he said, "I eat not the food of villains
Whose hands are foul and red:

Whose victims cry for vengeance
>From their dank, unhallowed graves."
"He's drunk!" said the workhouse master,
Or else he's mad and raves."
"Not drunk or mad," cried the pauper,
"But only a hunted beast,
Who, torn by the hounds and mangled,
Declines the vulture's feast."

"Keep your hands off me, curse you!
Hear me right out to the end.
You come here to see how paupers
The season of Christmas spend.
You come here to watch us feeding,
As they watch the captured beast.
Hear why a penniless pauper Spits on your paltry feast.

"Do you think I will take your bounty,
And let you smile and think
You're doing a noble action
With the parish's meat and drink?
Where's my wife, you traitors --
The poor old wife you slew?
Yes, by the God above us,
My Nance was killed by you!

"Last winter my wife lay dying,
Starved in a filthy den;
I had never been to the parish, --
I came to the parish then.
I swallowed my pride in coming,
For, ere the ruin came,
I held up my head as a trader,
And I bore a spotless name.

"I came to the parish, craving
Bread for a starving wife,
Bread for the woman who'd loved me Through fifty years of life;
And what do you think they told me,
Mocking my awful grief?
That the House' was open to us,
But they wouldn't give out relief.'

"I slunk to the filthy alley --
'Twas a cold, raw Christmas eve --
And the bakers' shops were open,
Tempting a man to thieve;
But I clenched my fists together,
Holding my head awry,
So I came to her empty-handed
And mournfully told her why.

"Then I told her 'the House' was open;
She had heard of the ways of that,
For her bloodless cheeks went crimson,
And up in her rags she sat,
Crying, 'Bide the Christmas here, John,
We've never had one apart;
I think I can bear the hunger, --
The other would break my heart.'

"All through that eve I watched her,
Holding her hand in mine,
Praying the Lord, and weeping,
Till my lips were salt as brine.
I asked her once if she hungered,
And as she answered 'No,'
The moon shone in at the window
Set in a wreath of snow.

"Then the room was bathed in glory,
And I saw in my darling's eyes
The far-away look of wonder
That comes when the spirit flies;
And her lips were parched and parted,
And her reason came and went,
For she raved of our home in Devon,
Where our happiest years were spent.

"And the accents long forgotten,
Came back to the tongue once more,
For she talked like the country lassie
I woo'd by the Devon shore.
Then she rose to her feet and trembled,
And fell on the rags and moaned,
And, 'Give me a crust -- I'm famished
-- For the love of God!' she groaned.

"I rushed from the room like a madman,
And flew to the workhouse gate,
Crying, 'Food for a dying woman!'
And the answer came, 'Too late.'
They drove me away with curses;
Then I fought with a dog in the street,
And tore from the mongrel's clutches
A crust he was trying to eat.

"Back, through the filthy by-lanes!
Back, through the trampled slush!
Up to the crazy garret,
Wrapped in an awful hush.
My heart sank down at the threshold,
And I paused with a sudden thrill,
For there in the silv'ry
moonlight My Nance lay, cold and still.

"Up to the blackened ceiling
The sunken eyes were cast --
I knew on those lips all bloodless
My name had been the last;
She'd called for her absent husband - - O God! had I but known! --
Had called in vain, and in anguish,
Had died in that den -- alone.

"Yes, there, in a land of plenty,
Lay a loving woman dead,
Cruelly starved and murdered
For a loaf of the parish bread.
At yonder gate, last Christmas, I craved for a human life.
You, who would feast us paupers, What of my murdered wife!


There, get ye gone to your dinners;
Don't mind me in the least;
Think of the happy paupers
Eating your Christmas feast;

And when you recount their blessings
In your smug parochial way,
Say what you did for me, too,
Only last Christmas Day '
 
What a sad commentary of what happens to so many children - and it never stops - Indian children in Canada were taken away from their homes to be brought up as Christians at one time -

Then after the Second World War - some children who were evacuated to Australia their parents didn't want them back - They had made a new life for themselves - so children were told their parents were killed in air raids - and subsequently placed in orphanages - Only when they were older did they find out the truth that they had been lied to -

There is absolutley no excuse for that - not like the Banardo Boys
 
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