I think the 'Conversations' button is built into the xenforo software so we will have to remember that 'Posts' are now 'Messages' and the old 'Instant Messages' or 'Private Messages' are now 'Conversations' ....
as long as they are private phil thats fine...also just noticed that frothblower started a new thread for st day unders the discussions sections so i clicked on discussions but you have to scroll down past very old threads to find it..i would have thought the lastest new thread posted would have been at the top..